Thursday, December 7, 2017

When a Woman is Intoxicated by Sweet Illogical Promises.

Malang, 7 December 2017



Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10210802115345016&id=1114726853

When I read this post, I lost all my words! 

This is so sickening. Why should she bring a hadith in her arguments? Isn't this showing that Islam is enslaving women as sex slave for the men? Isn't it showing that Islam supports that men's sexual desire should outweight the rational thinking or self-control? Isn't it showing how disgusting the morale of muslims?

This post reminds me to the Jonru's post about why God gives reward 72 ladies to each man in heaven. He argued that man is naturally sexual driven and God knows about it.

Even in marriage life, sexual activity without consent from both parties is considered as a rape! Why can't they understand even about this simple thing???

What makes it even sadder that the post is written by a woman, the person that should help their own group from slavery concealed by the name of religious faith.

Women are now seduced by using many religious quotes, but they are actually being used to oppressed their own personal rights. The words are such as: "heaven is under woman's feet", "you are pretty wearing hijab", "don't show up your beauty in public since your beauty is only for your husband", "raising and educating kids at home is exclusively woman's job", " if a single hair of woman is revealed, she drags her father, her brothers, her husband, and her sons to the hell", etc. Who is benefited?

Tuesday, December 5, 2017

A Movie Based on a True Story

Malang, 6 December 2017



My mom never asks me to marry. She even protects me from the people who try to attack my personal life with the question "when will you marry?". In my case, the pressure comes from society: my teachers, my friends, my co-workers, religious-leaders, news and social medias. 

This movie speaks louder than a rhetoric. They don't know how depressing it is to be people like me living in the middle of bigotry, ignorant society. You can't even say you are alive when you are forced to live as someone else.

*update: the video has been deleted from YouTube. The video's title is: 'I'm Fine" by Waskitha Galih. you may find the other copy in this link: https://www.viddsee.com/video/im-fine/0bb2w?locale=id

Friday, November 3, 2017

How to Deal with Resentment

Sydney, 4 November 2017

I come into anger again recently,easily irritated, easily exploding. Even playing a game on my phone can trigger my anger. I am so sad how I can be into this kind of person. What's wrong with me?

I tried to find the answer on internet and I found this video. More or less, what she said are true. I have been in the situation where I was victimised and powerless but all I could do was keeping the anger inside my soul for years. I wish I can deal with my anger and resentment and become a forgiving person.