Who is More Dangerous?

Malang, 25 January 2018

The most dangerous one is the oppression done by heterosexuals and religions' followers to force homosexuals to live as heterosexuals. Not only creating depression to homosexuals for faking their sexual orientation, but also creating unhealthy social life for homosexuals for living and hiding in the darkness since their sexual life is criminalised. What even more dangerous is when those religious bigots feel they have a right to be their God's representation by punishing homosexuals merely just based on THEIR OWN belief!

And what most disgusting is the hypocrisy done by those religious bigots. They talk and act as if their attitude is the correct one. They judge homosexuals for sexual-orientation misbehave. But they are proundly showing their own lust, marrying many women, having many kids, which lead to subsequent social problems. What makes it disgusting is that they are making excuses for their behavior by hiding themselves under the religion! What a hypocrisy.

They feel proud for marrying their opposite gender and having many kids. They think they have been so devoted to their god. They think they have been better than homosexuals.

While homosexuals are discriminated. Their sexual orientation has been accused guilty at the first place. Not only acussation, they are also judged, oppressed, and not allowed to have their own sexual life. Homosexuals are never getting their god's blessing. Born to be homosexuals are a death sentence if you live in the middle of religuous bigots, at least you'll be dead inside for being forced to live as if you were a heterosexual.

Anyone can live as whatever their belief says. BUT noone can dictate someone else to live just merely based on other's belief.

If you want an argument and deliberation, do it scientifically, based on data and facts, not based on your outdated storytale!

I Wanna Commit to Suicide Now

Malang, 23 January 2018

When LGBT Campaigns in Unies are Regarded as a Conspiracy

Malang, 22 January 2018

So sad. He's an academist, and he works for The Ministry of Education. But he closed his mind by giving no option to accept LGBT. He thinks approving LGBT is a part of a conspiracy.

Instead, he does not look at the movement is to fight the discrimination by the Abrahamic religions. He is so bias that the decision about goods or bads of homosexuals are eventually brought back to what has been being said by his religion.

I am so sad. There is no bright future to erase discrimination towards homosexuals in Indonesia if all the people are still thinking like him. I wish I were not born in this world at all.

They never know the struggle I have been through, trying to fit the society, trying to be "back to normal", breaking the hearts so many times, yet still accepting riducules, slanders, mockery and so much cruel words from those religious hypocrites. I am so disappointed.

They Say I Wasted My Brain

Malang, 21 January 2018

So they say I have wasted my precious briliant brain for giving my support to LGBT? It is me who feel the discrimination! If it is not me who fight for it, then who else? No one cares, no one understands, even my closest friends and family members never know how it feels.

The Wall that is Called

Malang, 21 January 2018

... called ignorance, fanatism, and religion.

What a Hypocrisy

Malang, 21 January 2018

What a hypocrisy.

How Can I ever Heal

Malang, 21 January 2018

I do want to forgive and forget. I am so tired of this disappointment. But how can I ever heal my wound? How can I ever forgive? If I always see they still do the same thing again and again.

I always tried to accept and think straight about what happen to me. I tried to deal with the situation. I tried to open the door. I tried to establish the trust.

But all my trust break very easily when all they can is just judging and disgracing. My disappointment is always coming back.

What makes it even more painful is they who mock are my best friends. We used to be good friends. I have been a good friend for them. Why do they now hate me so much? I never did bad thing to them.

How can I ever heal from this resentment if they degrade me all the time, blame me for the thing that I never know why.

And my anger accumulates to know that they are all hypocrites. I know how they always make jokes to make fun and degrade women, being sexists, and dirty-minded. Now they think they are great just because they are straigh-sexually oriented? And now they think they are much better than homosexuals.

Just tell me how do I ever heal if I still live amongst those ignorant bigots?

The Problems Of Forcing Homosexuals To Marry Opposite Gender

Malang, 1 January 2018

Another person commented on my post, and this time is my teacher.

She argued that homosexual is a contagious disease and has caused a married man cheating on his wife for another man. She has accused that homosexual is a sexual predator that destroys someone's marriage. She keeps believing that homosexual is aiming young generations to multiply itself and spreading the "disease" (I am super sad to be slandered like this 😢😭).

Then, I clarified her statement. I asked her "if the cheating is between heterosexuals, what is it to blame? Is it their heterosexuality or is it their cheating?". If she blames homosexuality for the cheating, why doesn't she blame heterosexuality for the more-common cheating cases?

I am not going to stand for the cheating man in this case. Whether or not he is actually a homosexual inside, I will not judge him. To me, he probably has hurt his wife, kids, and families. But, there are a lot of cases of homosexuals are not happy with their marriage with an opposite gender.

Our society has opressed homosexuals' right to follow their natural sexual desire. A lot of homosexuals are forced to conceal their sexuality and forced to marry a person they are never sexually attracted. They are honestly never happy with their marriage life. This is actually a ticking bomb.

We need to fix our society in the first place. Opressing homosexuals for their sexual life actually brings a lot of subsequent problems. Some of homosexuals are living as someone else for the entire of their life and sell their happiness to society. But sexual orientation can never lie. Some of them still look for their missing piece eventhough they are married. This emerges a stigma that homosexual is destroying someone's marriage. Well actually the real problem is not like that.

Some other homosexuals are desperate with their "fake" life and decide to live freely and honestly. They have been disappointed by their failure to be "cured" and disappointed by the accusations, slanders and judgments from religious and heterosexual hypocrites. They have lost their faith to society's values.  But some of them are going too far and irresponsible with their freedom. But again, people only see the outcome not the rootcause, and make a misleading generalisation about homosexuals.

People should not close their eyes that homosexuals do really exist. Homosexuals always exist in nature in a smal chunk of a population. Heterosexuals statistically are always a majority. But their majority power has made them as a discriminative group. Why would they worry about homosexuals? Homosexuals and heterosexuals are competing in the different league. Why do they still opress homosexuals and force them to live as heterosexuals? It is heterosexuals who create problems to homosexuals in the first place, not the other way around. Why can they never understand? They have been blinded by their religious doctrines. They can't deliberate this issue fairly and rationally. All their arguments are full of prejudices and slanders. Why does religion teach people to hate each other?

I believe if people are acknowledging homosexuals to live as they are, they will have a healthy social life just as heterosexuals do. Homosexuals are no different with heterosexuals. They can be good, can be bad, and have the same rights and position in laws. But heterosexuals' opression to homosexuals' life does actually create a lot of derived problems.

Double Standard in Discriminating Homosexuals

Malang, 1 January 2018

After I posted this status

Then, a friend of mine replied with this

Now if I have two circumstances as follows:

1. Heterosexual couples are very risky to hiv infection since the husbands are likely to have sex in prostitution.

2. Homosexual couples are very risky to hiv infection since one of them are likely to have sex in prostitution.

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In the first circumstance, people will blame the behaviour of the husbands, but protect the wives. There is nothing to do with heterosexuality.

In the second circumstance, people will blame the homosexuality. They will accuse that all homosexuals are free-sex-driven and therefore, the cause of hiv spreading.

In fact, in the first circumstance, not all husbands are doing prostitute and not all wives are invested by hiv. People will not blame heterosexual couples just because some of them are infected hiv.

The same situation also applies to homosexual couples. Then, why do people tend to judge homosexuals? Is their hatred that bad to homosexuals? If so, why do they still deny if they are told they are discriminating homosexuals? Is it because of their religion thus they turn into denials?

What If Heterosexuals are Accused in The Same Way They Accuse Homosexuals

Malang, 1 January 2018

What if I use homophobics' framework of thinking, but this time I'm gonna use their logic to make conclusions to hate heterosexuals.

1. There are a lot of hiv/aids cases in heterosexual, much more than in homosexual cases. Thus, heterosexual is very dangerous.

2. There are a lot of heterosexual rapists, heterosexual pedophils, and heterosexual predators, more than homosexual ones. Thus, we have to ban heterosexual.

3. Heterosexuals are always trying and forcing my homosexual kids to be heterosexual. Thus, heterosexuals are dangerous.

4. Free-sex and prostitution between heterosexuals outnumbers homosexual's cases. Then, it is their heterosexuality is to be blamed for the free-sex and prostitution they do.

5. Heterosexual sex is disgusting. They lick and fuck both vagina and anus. They also do oral sex. Therefore, heterosexuals are immoral and don't deserve to live.

Based on argument number 1 to 5, we firmly believe that heterosexuality is dangerous for our next generation and must be banned forever.

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Doesn't it sound funny to your ears? Especially if you are a heterosexual, those arguments don't make any sense at all. You are gonna rebut that those behaviours are nothing to do with heterosexuality. You may be arguing that heterosexuality is something comes naturally in every person, thus person cannot be blamed just because he/she is a heterosexual.

Why can't they see homosexuality with the same perspective?

A Homophobic Friend Who Studied in the Netherland

Malang, 1 Januari 2018

I found a good article to explain what homosexuality really is. Then, I shared the article on Facebook to answer all slanders and judgments from homophobic bigots. Here is the link to the article:

http://locita.co/esai/ketularan-lgbt-begini-proses-yang-sebenarnya

However, still, those homophobic bigots' brain has been locked by religious doctrine to hate homosexual. Thus, they can't open their mind to any other arguments and facts to clarify their misunderstanding about homosexual. It is shown from one of my friend's comment:

It is so saddenning. Despite the article has explained what homosexuality really is, he keeps thinking that homosexual is bad. He compares homosexuality with smoking habits and drug habits.

In fact, homosexuality is a natural condition of each individual's sexual orientation. It is nothing to do with his/her behaviours. Homosexuality is neutral, neither bad nor good. But still, if someone has been blinded by the hatred to homosexual because of religion, he keeps saying homosexual is bad.

What's even worse is that the friend who commented on my post was studying his master degree in the Netherland, a very secular country that supports LGBT. And he also studied social science. What did he actually learn over there if he stil does not understand what LGBT is.

I am so sad and disappointed about it. How can people hate homosexuals like me. Meanwhile, it is not me who chose to be like this. It is just like them never chose to be straight either. Sexual orientation is something that comes naturally. We never know how or why. But why god makes me like this then he hates me? God, what's wrong with you?