Double Standard in Discriminating Homosexuals

Malang, 1 January 2018

After I posted this status

Then, a friend of mine replied with this

Now if I have two circumstances as follows:

1. Heterosexual couples are very risky to hiv infection since the husbands are likely to have sex in prostitution.

2. Homosexual couples are very risky to hiv infection since one of them are likely to have sex in prostitution.

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In the first circumstance, people will blame the behaviour of the husbands, but protect the wives. There is nothing to do with heterosexuality.

In the second circumstance, people will blame the homosexuality. They will accuse that all homosexuals are free-sex-driven and therefore, the cause of hiv spreading.

In fact, in the first circumstance, not all husbands are doing prostitute and not all wives are invested by hiv. People will not blame heterosexual couples just because some of them are infected hiv.

The same situation also applies to homosexual couples. Then, why do people tend to judge homosexuals? Is their hatred that bad to homosexuals? If so, why do they still deny if they are told they are discriminating homosexuals? Is it because of their religion thus they turn into denials?

What If Heterosexuals are Accused in The Same Way They Accuse Homosexuals

Malang, 1 January 2018

What if I use homophobics' framework of thinking, but this time I'm gonna use their logic to make conclusions to hate heterosexuals.

1. There are a lot of hiv/aids cases in heterosexual, much more than in homosexual cases. Thus, heterosexual is very dangerous.

2. There are a lot of heterosexual rapists, heterosexual pedophils, and heterosexual predators, more than homosexual ones. Thus, we have to ban heterosexual.

3. Heterosexuals are always trying and forcing my homosexual kids to be heterosexual. Thus, heterosexuals are dangerous.

4. Free-sex and prostitution between heterosexuals outnumbers homosexual's cases. Then, it is their heterosexuality is to be blamed for the free-sex and prostitution they do.

5. Heterosexual sex is disgusting. They lick and fuck both vagina and anus. They also do oral sex. Therefore, heterosexuals are immoral and don't deserve to live.

Based on argument number 1 to 5, we firmly believe that heterosexuality is dangerous for our next generation and must be banned forever.

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Doesn't it sound funny to your ears? Especially if you are a heterosexual, those arguments don't make any sense at all. You are gonna rebut that those behaviours are nothing to do with heterosexuality. You may be arguing that heterosexuality is something comes naturally in every person, thus person cannot be blamed just because he/she is a heterosexual.

Why can't they see homosexuality with the same perspective?

A Homophobic Friend Who Studied in the Netherland

Malang, 1 Januari 2018

I found a good article to explain what homosexuality really is. Then, I shared the article on Facebook to answer all slanders and judgments from homophobic bigots. Here is the link to the article:

http://locita.co/esai/ketularan-lgbt-begini-proses-yang-sebenarnya

However, still, those homophobic bigots' brain has been locked by religious doctrine to hate homosexual. Thus, they can't open their mind to any other arguments and facts to clarify their misunderstanding about homosexual. It is shown from one of my friend's comment:

It is so saddenning. Despite the article has explained what homosexuality really is, he keeps thinking that homosexual is bad. He compares homosexuality with smoking habits and drug habits.

In fact, homosexuality is a natural condition of each individual's sexual orientation. It is nothing to do with his/her behaviours. Homosexuality is neutral, neither bad nor good. But still, if someone has been blinded by the hatred to homosexual because of religion, he keeps saying homosexual is bad.

What's even worse is that the friend who commented on my post was studying his master degree in the Netherland, a very secular country that supports LGBT. And he also studied social science. What did he actually learn over there if he stil does not understand what LGBT is.

I am so sad and disappointed about it. How can people hate homosexuals like me. Meanwhile, it is not me who chose to be like this. It is just like them never chose to be straight either. Sexual orientation is something that comes naturally. We never know how or why. But why god makes me like this then he hates me? God, what's wrong with you?